Featured Review
Raising Happiness: 10 Simple Steps for More Joyful Kids and Happier Parents
Christine Carter (Ballantine Books, 2010)
In a culture where Wii, Princess dresses, and iPads dominate, children from families of wealth can easily become focused on material gain rather than on creating meaning in their lives. At 21/64, we work with next generation inheritors of wealth and philanthropy who aspire to find their purpose, their passions, and direct their energy toward creating change in the world given their resources – ambitious pursuits for anyone, let alone for people who could easily be distracted by things they can buy rather than fund.
To inform our work, we¹ve benefited from following the books, blogs and online teachings of Christine Carter, Director of the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley and author of Raising Happiness. Carter argues that happiness is neither an innate nor a fixed condition, and that parents are in a unique position to create the environments which will lead to their children being happier not only in childhood, but throughout their adult lives. Her new book outlines, in ten simple steps, how parents can actively engage children, offering methods by which parents can promote values such as gratitude to combat a child's sense of entitlement or forgiveness to undermine anger.
Carter¹s approach is a balance of scientific research and techniques developed from her personal experiences as a mother. While every family could benefit from the various lessons outlined in the book, Carter focuses on teaching children how to be grateful and how to live meaningful lives – lessons that are particularly important for families with significant financial resources. Accessible to parents and advisors to families grappling with how to raise philanthropic children, we commend Raising Happiness by book or blog.
Archived Editorial Reviews
The Art of Giving: Where the Soul Meets a Business Plan
Charles Bronfman and Jeffrey Solomon (Jossey-Bass, 2010)
Click here to read this review.
Do More Than Give: The Six Practices of Donors Who Change the World
Leslie R. Crutchfield, John V. Kania, Mark R. Kramer (Jossey-Bass, March 2011)
Click here to read the interview.
Here Comes Everybody: The Power of Organizing Without Organizations
Clay Shirky (Penguin Press, 2008)
Click here to read this review.
The M-Factor: How the Millennial Generation is Rocking the Workplace
Lynne C. Lancaster and David Stillman (HarperCollins Publishers, 2010)
Click here to read this review.
Making Ideas Happen: Overcoming the Obstacles Between Vision and Reality
Scott Belsky (Portfolio Hardcover, April 2010)
Gen Y-er Stephanie Lerner, our summer 2010 intern and member of UPenn's Class of 2011, sat down for a conversation with Gen X's Scott Belsky, CEO and founder of Behance and author of Making Ideas Happen.
Click here to read the interview.
Money Sanity Solutions: Linking Money and Meaning
Nathan Dungan (Share Save Spend, 2010)
Click here to read the review.
Additional articles, books and resources
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Topic: Family Philanthropy
The Hip Family Guide to Happier HolidaysLisa Parker
Provides tips for families on how to celebrate the holidays in a meaningful way and how to impart lessons of giving and generosity to children during the holiday season.
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Topic: Generational Change
The Baby BoomersProf. Diane J. Macunovich, Barnard College, October 2000
The origins, socio-economic characteristics, and future projections of the Baby Boom generation.
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Topic: Raising Charitable Children
Philanthropy’s Role in Developing Responsible AdultsSam Davis and Allison Sole, Family Giving News, October 2011
Methods by which parents in wealthy households can foster positive philanthropic values in their children.
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Topic: Strategic Philanthropy
Out of FocusReginald Stuart, Case Currents, October 2011
Explores the complex relationships between potential donors, development officers, and institutional recipients, particularly the ways in which a donor’s vision can be negotiated to fit an institution’s needs.
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Topic: Women and Philanthropy
The New Wealth Paradigm: How Affluent Women are Taking Control of their FuturesCampden FB Summer 2009, Issue 43
A look at today's affluent women, and how they are taking a more active role in managing their money.
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"I've been writing all day on family philanthropy for the book and reviewing all of my resources from 21/64 to help jog my brain and inspiring my writing. I just wanted to thank you for all your amazing resources and knowledge... I never cease to be amazed at the quality and amount of support you have shared. It's making such a HUGE difference for me!"
Emily Davis, MNM
EDA Consulting
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"Glenmede, an independent investment and wealth management firm, has had the pleasure of hosting several workshops for our clients during which Sharna spoke about intergenerational issues and values. The audience was engaged for the entire presentation and everyone left with tools to open the discussion with their children and grandchildren about the values that are important to them and the legacy they would like to leave for future generations. We look forward to partnering with 21/64 on future multigenerational event."
Nina Cohen, Glenmede
Philanthropic Advisory Services Group
